Death, ever wondered how it feels like to be dead?
Or how is it like before death?
What do you see before you die?
Many people who woke up from coma claimed that they see a tunnel and a light at the end.
And they will start hearing the voices of their loved ones, calling them.
These only happen to people that is one a long road to death.
It does not mean that if the were to see this, they will be 100% dead.
Many people still become conscious half-way through this tunnel of death.
My mum who personally experienced this before, always tells me about her coma after giving birth to my brother. She saw this death tunnel and heard the voices of grandma and aunt .
Then she woke up upon hearing their voices.
But what if, what if the person do not even have a chance to experience a long route to death, what if it was an accident of immediate death?
They won't even see the tunnel , will they?
Do they even have flashbacks of the moments in life, or do they just feel the pain and blackout?
What do they feel after death?
No one knows...
After the person's death, depending on what religion they are.
Different rituals are practiced.
But do they even know that we are doing the rituals for them?
Will they really receive our blessings?
What if their bodies were already burnt into ashes during the accidents, what if there were nothing to be placed in the urn or coffins?
Then where can we find them?
They passed on.
What about their parents? Their loved ones.
Trauma happens. Gallons of tears shed, and sleepless nights spent.
Dreams and nightmares of the accidents the loved ones have faced.
If it was a long route to death, like if it was a cancer patient...
They will be able to slowly accept the fact that this person will be leaving them soon, they will plan and give more time to the person.
But what if it was a fatal immediate accident that no one ever thought would happen, the person died on the spot and traffic police go over to their homes and notify the death of the person to the loved ones.
How will they feel?
I've experience such scenario , i know.
It's heart wrenching.
When you look at them, they are all at a lost, they don't know what to do and who to confide to.
That person that's dead, is the person they just spoke to this morning.
The person that they planned a meal together.
She's gone.
And now they are only left with her funeral to attend.
How will they be feeling?
The weaker ones will not be able to take it.
Some will blackout and faint on the spot.
Some will just become quiet suddenly and will not speak a thing for days, weeks, months or even years.
Their family members, when they look at her room, the room that was occupied just hours ago, the person is now gone.
She's now in the mortuary. She's now in the coffin.
They are facing a room filled with all her items, her favorite childhood toy, her barbie doll, her hello kitty soft-toy.
How are they supposed to accept it?
How are they supposed to clear her stuffs away and convinced themselves that she's gone.
Death,
Are you ready to face it?
