Outrageous Love

So today i came across this video, and many thoughts filled my mind. I knew i had to write something about it. And so here's what i have to say, about the video. The link is below. Sorry that i didn't embed the whole video in, my computer can't seem to fetch the embed code. 

http://vimeo.com/92598755

This is a extremely deep and meaningful video. It touches my heart so much. So many things that i can relate to. One of which, guys & pornography. Many guys would say that it's normal for men to watch pornography, saying that everyone's watching it. But hey, it's not true, i know people who doesn't watch it. To you guys, it might just be for mere pleasure, but for your girlfriend, do you actually know how hurt she'll be when she finds out what you're watching, and it's worst when you lie that you are not watching it.

Some may argue, why am i so against guys watching pornography, i'll just say this, i'm not against it, just not in favour of it. To me, if a guy watches pornography and tells the gf or wife that he'll not cheat when another woman approaches him, i'll not believe it. Because if you are tempted to watch pornography even when it's not real, you'll be even more tempted when a girl strips infront of you or when she does intimate acts to you, and so you'll just carry on with it.

And when you're attached or married, you have desires for the girls you watch in pornography or videos, may i ask, where's your respect for your girlfriend? Of coz, some will say i'm overthinking and imagining things, but think deeper, how will she be feeling. To you guys it's a small matter, but to some of us girls, it's a big issue, and in the eyes of god, that's adultery.

Life is like that, it's a win-win situation.

Guys, if you want a good girl that's homely and lovely and have the most demure mindset and the nicest inner qualities, you jolly well be a good partner and treat her right.

Don't be a total arsehole, go around partying, approaching girls, looking at girls who dress sexily and skimpily, enjoying other girl's company and enjoying the pleasure of having fun behind your demure girlfriend's back. Really. It's really going to hurt the girl real bad.

If you want to have fun, get someone that's similar to yourself. If you love partying, get a gf who loves partying, but at the same time, don't expect her to stay home and be that good girl when you are partying, because it's not going to happen.

What you do is what you get, if you want something, you'll got to sacrifice something, there's always opportunity costs.

And to be honest, arseholes are the hardest to forgive, so please, don't be one............................

Cherish them.

Friends

 

Well, i haven't been blogging much these days. 

I'm in Year 3 now, time flies so fast. Remember those days when i always complain about life and exam stress in school etc. 

Well so currently i'm in the TEP Program of Nanyang Polytechnic. There's two stopovers for this program and for the first seven weeks i was actually over at the Business Research Centre. Learn lots of market research techniques etc. 

The best part of this program? It's a definite answer. The friends that i've made throughout the entire 7 weeks. Well, i've never thought that we would grow this close to each other, but well we were all fated to meet and meant to stay together as best of friends. 

Even now that we are all at different stopovers, we still meet for lunch and gatherings which is honestly really heartwarming. 

Although these two weeks aren't good for me, but i've met many good people as well and i thank god for that. 

I've learnt to be happy and contented with my life. :)